Recently there had been a crash in Portland Ct on route 17, the police were still asking for anyone who had information to call in, there had been a police chase from Glastonbury, someone had earlier found a woman presumably asleep at the wheel, but had sped off when wakened.

Crystal wanted to do some ‘Barefoot Paranormal’ and needed a video, so we left Perkatory coffee in Middletown to go investigate.

We found tire marks on the road, swerving at times, maybe going the wrong way then swerving into a side road with other, lighter tire marks coming from the opposite direction, also swerving, presumably to avoid a collision, but failing, the woman driving died.

Before Crystal had set up her equipment I walked along the road to get a ‘feel’ but only got stress, nothing specific.

Returning, I walked through the impact area, feeling intensity there. I’ve done this before, in Wolcott, read ‘Helping a dog move on’ April 30, 2024, thanks to my EMS experiences I’m able to separate out the different emotions by the different responders, passengers and drivers, bystanders etc. and then release or ground them out, until reaching anyone who died.

There was one ghost, a woman. She’d been driving that car in a reckless manner. She noticed me and approached, entered my energy field, so we could read each other. She wrapped her arms around me, wanting me to do the same. So we hugged. She didn’t want me to do the guy thing – solve something, just be there. So I hugged, and cared.

Crystal uses an app which speaks, the next message was ‘flash of light’. When a Guide communicates with me the message is brief and very precise, I knew exactly what this message meant. A brief calling for pink light. It communicates that one is loved unconditionally. Not to impose it, just a hint. The ghost liked, was ok with more so I continued it. She started to open up more feelings, and thoughts, her life had not worked for a long while, she hadn’t been appreciated, had felt excluded, unable to make a difference, outside circumstances too entrenched, nothing would change, and lots of sadness.

Aside, talking with Crystal, I’d mentioned the phrase “you need a good talking to” and the converse, “you need a good listening to”. This ghost needed that. Active listening. No fixing. No interrupting unless it was to clarify something.

Crystal was delighted that a Guide could talk through her app, not just ghosts.

I had also noted a numbness. I felt she’d drugged herself, maybe washed down with some alcohol, the sadness was never going to go away, but she could end it all. That seemed to explain being found unresponsive at the wheel. She had fled on being woken. Her mind was clear.

I then tapped into her experience, driving fast, little to no concern over any cop car chasing. And suddenly it was all over. Except she was still here, still numb, reliving her death experience. Overlapped with me I could reduce that numbness, no judgement as she became more aware. A female Guide joined us, Crystal’s app reported I was enough. Which included keep on going, do my thing.

Still hugging, she was more aware, and we started to have a conversation about what comes next. She wasn’t sure she deserved to go up. I said it would be fine, we had a Guide who’d come from there, and I knew she’d have a room in which to talk through her experiences, at her own pace. Active listening, imposing on some Guide or Guides to be available for her. When I’ve done things like that before, often the imposition reflects back, and I have to spend my time doing that. I agreed to visit her. I took her up, and people she already knew were up there waiting to cheer her on, she liked her room, she could slide a bolt on her side if she wanted, but nobody would disturb her if she didn’t want it. Her Guide stayed with her and I left.

Watch Barefoot Paranormal show …. and hear both sides, Crystal’s and mine.